Alex Leon – (The Natural Lifestyles) Social Media Dating Guide

This is the moment that makes it or breaks it.

Often, girls will stalk you or immediately ask for your profile to choose whether you’re a new potential lover to date or a guy with poor value to avoid.

It might sound unfair or even triggering to some, but this is how things work now, and if you want to keep getting good results with women, you cannot avoid this.

PUTTING THE NUMBERS
BACK INTO SEDUCTION

Seduction is, to an extent, a numbers game.

Of course, you can massively improve your stats by working a lot on becoming an interesting man, learning elite social skills, or leveling up in your appearance.

But the reality is that on average, even if you become world-class at cold-approaching if you go out and approach ten women in the streets:

• 1 maybe won’t even acknowledge you.
• 5 will be like “no thanks, I’m busy” (or are nice but have a boyfriend and won’t cheat).
• 3 you can talk to but only for a couple of minutes, enough to get their Instagram and number before they run away.
• 1 is a long solid interaction. If you’re skilled enough you can take her home right away.

So, the truth is that because of the nature of the cold approach, most of your interactions will be on the shorter side. That means the girl is possibly intrigued by you but not attracted to and comfortable enough with you to date you.