Dear Reader

This letter is for you.

It’s about how you can You can find out more at A more fulfilling, successful and rewarding life is possible.

You live a life that offers you opportunities and opens doors to new possibilities.

Imagine a life where you can influence anyone you meet.

It is not always the most talented, wealthy, or beautiful people who are most successful in life. People who influence and persuade others are the most successful. Take action.

If so, then you’re in the right spot.

You will soon discover that your ability to influence and persuade ethically is the key to your success. The best SHORTCUT To live the life you desire.

The traditional methods of persuasion are usually taught to someone as an idea. Does it to someone else that involves a mixture of reasoning, argument and in more recent decades… ‘covert’ language patterns…

… all designed to get the listener to agree with you.

To say “yes”.

These are just a few examples of ‘Outside – In Persuasion.’

The persuader starts from their point of view and tries to push their ideas into the listener’s mind via a variety of tactics and often so called “covert language patterns.”

And if they meet resistance, they are taught to overcome resistance by arousing emotion, stacking tactics and using sneaky language patterns and tricks to hit all of a person’s hot buttons to persuade.

These methods work? Yes sometimes, but…

Problem #1: It works mostly for the short term

If a person is skilled at using language patterns, anchoring and triggering states, stacking a person’s hot- buttons etc., it is possible to “persuade” A wide range of people have different opinions “yes” The Short-termTo something that might not be in their best interests.

One student may be successful with this method of persuasion. ‘a win’ You may even brag about your dominance of the other person.

Especially if the other person isn’t schooled in how to Protect themselves against this type of “persuasion.”

However…  when you step back and think about it, it’s not really persuasion…

Problem #2: It’s closer to coercion than actual persuasion

Operators can fill entire book shelves with their tools and techniques. “anything goes” persuasion.

Besides many practices being of questionable ethics, it’s got another big shortcoming…

Problem #3: It works only in In a certain set of situations.

Usually one-off persuasion, negotiation or influencing scenarios.

Contexts where you don’t have to see (or do business with) that person again.

Situations in which you can make it work by using some deceitful and sneaky persuasion strategies.

YET…

… If you are a coach, manager, consultant, sales professional, people helper, etc.You can influence, persuade, and secure more Yeses in any field. It is important to be able to sustain the effort over time You must be able to work in any setting if you wish to be effective and successful beyond the one-persuasion engagement.  

This applies to your personal life as well as at work..)

You can use short sentences-It is a term that persuades another person to do something. You will then Develop a reputation as someone who is untrustworthy and who can interact with caution.

You will be able to influence them again the next time. Massive resistance.

You will also need to “persuade” It’s twice as difficult!

This is a hidden downside that is seldom discussed in the outside-In tactics-focused approach to covert persuasion

Many of these teachers teach persuasion to be a tool to dominate others. “never lose an argument” “always win.”

Even they don’t achieve that.

That doesn’t stop them pitching language pattern after language pattern and short term tactics, with little consideration for how this form of “persuasion” It can impact any ongoing relationships you have, whether they are in the context of business, sales, personal life, or both.

It’s a “I win, they lose” approach that doesn’t work when you have to interact with that person again.

There’s a NEW method of persuasion. This is ethical, elegant, and works both in short and long terms. It’s the purest form of persuasion that Flip the switch Old, outdated approaches.

This framework can be used to complement any previous training in persuasion.

It’s starts from an Inside-Focus on relationships