Derek Rydall – The Confidence Code

There’s a difference between real confidence and mere cockiness or arrogance. Although you can be arrogant and push through difficult situations, this can lead to a toxic byproduct which can cause harm to people and decrease resources. However, real confidence will make you and your family stronger and more prosperous.

Derek Rydall – The Confidence Code

Your only authority is your inner conviction

Real confidence is like Zen and the art of archery, where you come into a state that the arrow is already in the bull’s-Eye before you release the bow.

In that place, you can hit the target blindfolded or in the dark, because you have transcended the illusion that there is a separate you, arrow and target, and realized it’s already one.

From there, you can’t miss!

Imagine what it would look like if you could have that level of confidence? That inner feeling that everything is possible? This inner conviction will be your only authority.

In other words, what you deeply believe and know – what you have unshakable confidence in – is what determines how your life unfold and what’s possible for you.

Outer people, places, opinions, or conditions have no power to determine your life…

• It’s this inner confidence that activates your emerging power.
• It’s this inner confidence that becomes the law of your life.
• It’s this inner confidence that creates your destiny!
• This program’s purpose is to build that confidence.

Unlocking Your Unique Confidence Code

TThere is a sense of confidence that you can attain in your life and yourself. This inner confidence is something that you will continue to build over the course of your life.

But developing that kind of unshakable confidence is different for each person and to each endeavor…

We are all at various levels of confidence in our life structures, such as Wealth, Health, Work, Relationships, Spirituality, Personal Development, etc…

You activate your confidence code by identifying the areas you most need it. This will help you to create more leverage in your life, and increase your success in the fastest, most efficient, and most effective manner. 

This is your confidence code.

What we’ll do in this course is lay out the framework and foundation, the path, the practice, and the way of life that, if you follow it, will develop this confidence progressively and sometimes dramatically.

This is one of the best journeys where you will lose some of your baggage and be happy about it.

Ten Reasons Confidence
You are the key to success

1.The Courage to Begin
In this session, you’ll learn how to hear the guidance that’s always available to you, the broadcast of truth always playing, leading you to your greatest potential… and how to make it actionable in your life to get real-World results

2.The To Stand Strong

Confident people are more confident and can stand up for their rights. They also have better boundaries. They respect and value themselves, and they train others to treat them the same way. If we don’t have confidence, we are more likely become a doormat than a welcome rug. We are a wishbone and not a backbone.

3. The Ability to Say No 
People who are confident have a strong personality. “No” and aren’t afraid to use it. They don’t do things they don’t want to, or that don’t serve the higher good for them and others. They are able to set healthy boundaries and not feel shameful, guilty, or blamed.

4.The Ability to say Yes 

People who are confident can be powerful “Yes” They are ready to say “Yes” to their yeses! This allows them the opportunity to go on to the next stage in their evolution.

6.A self-Concept of Success

People who are confident have stronger self-esteem.-A deeper belief in oneself. They don’t let other people’s opinions take them down or sway them from their path. Henry Ford said it best: “Whether you think you can, or you think you can’t — you’re right.” Your only authority is your inner conviction. Confidence This gift will make you feel special.

7.The Ability to think Big

Confident people tend to dream big and set high goals. When the goal seems out of reach, they don’t pray to have a smaller goal, they pray to have a further reach! A person without confidence will shrink under pressure and set small goals, or none at all, and end up living in quiet desperation, and mediocrity.

8.The Willingness and courage to be bold

Confidence is the willingness to take risks and push beyond their comfort zone, to take bold steps that could lead to great results. They exercise their inner and outer muscles beyond what they’ve done before, making them stronger and capable of doing even bigger, better things. There are no limits to how brilliant, strong, or successful you can be – only the limitations you accept.

9.The Asking questions is a curiosity

The The quality of your questions determines the quality of your life. When you’re confident, you ask more questions and better quality questions. Ask for what you want and when you want it. And for as many as you like. Ask, and you will receive. Confident person makes a big ask of life…and receives a big answer!

10. A Successful Expectation

People who are confident expect to succeed. They practice winning, they view themselves as victorious not victims, and they know that they will win. Michelangelo was able to achieve this when he created the David statue (of David & Goliath). He didn’t sculpt David fighting Goliath or slaying Goliath, he sculpted David in the moment when David knew that he could and would win the battle. Goliath was gone in that instant, before David even stepped foot on the battlefield. That’s the power of the Confidence Code unlocked!

The 12 Step Combination to Unlock your Potential Confidence

You need to master 12 key areas in order to develop confidence. You don’t have to do all of them right away or perfect them to have confidence. You can unlock the confidence code by focusing on them.

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Make sure you have a clear vision of the result. Our minds have a unique system to help us focus on the things we are most interested in. Fuzzy goals lead to fuzzy outcomes. Foggy destinations can lead to lost. Are you feeling lost? What was your confidence level? You feel unsure and tentative and take things slow. You often give up and stop trying. But when you know where you’re going, you not only move forward without the brakes on – you can put the gas on!

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Be a vibrational match to your result. Even when you know where you’re going, if you don’t internally feel congruent with it, if you aren’t emotionally and mentally aligned, you can feel torn, moving in two directions at once. For example, you’re on your way to meet a potential partner, but instead of feeling whole, powerful, and in love, you feel inadequate and have visions of past relationships gone bad. You know where you’re going, but you’re conflicted. How confident are you? It’s like the Zen parable about riding two horses at the same time in different directions — not a fun experience! It’s the root of ambition – ambi, to go in two different directions. It breaks us down and tears them apart.

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Pick a Path & Stay the Course Until You Get the Result. This is how you build character. Without this level of commitment, you’ll hit your thresholds and fall off track or pull back. You will never be able to grow in the areas that you are most passionate about, which can lead to a life of frustration, depression, addiction, and a loss of fulfillment. This can lead to frustration, depression and addiction that will ultimately result in a lackluster life. Progress is what brings joy. This principle must be followed with a steady practice. It is impossible to make sustainable progress without it.

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You can design a life that leads inexorably towards the end. Life is not always planned. It happens by default. The people, places, things and activities tend to reflect where we’ve been but not where we want to go. They reflect a need for acceptance and safety, which is a result of a lack of power. If we set our goals and then live them, we can unlock the confidence code that will allow us to tap into the hidden talents and gifts that will help us reach the next level.

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The foundation Confidence-Competence Loop. At this point, you’re building real momentum and moving into this upward spiral. That’s what we want, momentum in the direction of confidence and expansion. This is crucial. This is crucial. Without momentum, it can become subjective. You must keep going without letting your energy go. It can lead to burnout and, at worst, backsliding and settling. As you learn how to apply this principle, you’ll create a success pattern that puts your growth, expansion, and your capacity for achievement on autopilot! This is an exciting game-changer.

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Relâche the Resistance Confidence. In this module, we’ll deal with some of the key areas that sabotage your confidence: procrastination, lack of commitment, lack of follow through, waiting to feel good/comfortable, self-worth, etc. You’ll learn why you really procrastinate, what’s really underneath it, and how to heal it. You’ll discover why you don’t follow through, why you wait to feel good/comfortable, what’s really going on with the core self-worth issues…and much more. The The integration of this session allows you to relax, breathe deeply, expand, and take the next step in your pursuit of your dreams.

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Clearing the Shadows Confidence. Your shadows are unconscious patterns trying to get your attention so they can be redeemed and integrated — but we often spend a lifetime trying to ignore, fix, or repress them. In this module, you’ll understand the core shadows to confidence, where they come from, why you created them, and how to work with them so that they become allies in your evolution!

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Empathic Mastery. It is essential to master confidence by learning how to feel your emotions, be with them, and then transform the emotion into raw power. You can’t let them run your life. We’ll go deep into this one…and you’ll come out the other side more balanced, integrated, grounded, and alive!

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Eliminating emotional reasoning. We’ve been conditioned to be run by our emotions, believing they have power, but they really don’t. Emotions can be described as energy in motion. They tell us what we believe, they don’t tell us the truth. While they’re valuable for understanding our unconscious patterns, we shouldn’t let them determine what we do. You can be free from them. ‘emotional reasoning,’ No matter how bad you feel, you can do anything you commit to. There is no reason to be stuck. You will become more productive, empowered, and eventually unstoppable. You will be forever changed if you can master just one module.

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The Self Care System A person who is in good physical condition, has good health, and drinks plenty of water, is more likely to be confident. In this module, we’ll talk about how focusing on the areas of greatest leverage can lead to massive increases in productivity, follow through, self esteem and confidence. This is an important step in your journey to confidence. It will allow you to reach your full potential.

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The Confidence Journey. Confidence building doesn’t end. These steps will make you more confident, especially when you complete an entire cycle. There is always more to do. And sometimes you will feel LESS confident because you’ve hit a new threshold, a new level — you’ve adjusted to the old level and it’s so natural that you don’t see how far you’ve come and you can feel like you’ve gone backwards. In this module, we’ll talk about how to deal with the ongoing journey of building lifelong confidence!

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