Rion Williams – Cure My Approach Anxiety

Unfortunately, it seems most AA advice out there is coming from people who haven’t cured it themselves or it just plain doesn’t work.

Rion Williams – Cure My Approach Anxiety

Cure My Approach Anxiety : Learn the 3 Step Formula for Permanently Living. Cure Your Anxiety Around The Women You Want to Meet & Get Them Attracted Instead
The 12 Anxiety ‘Solutions’ You will experience more anxiety from the things I predict.

It’s a very real issue that is affecting your ability to attract and date beautiful, higher quality women in reality.

Unfortunately, it seems most AA advice out there is coming from people who haven’t cured it themselves or it just plain doesn’t work.  This kind of advice can cause anxiety for years and push women away from you.

If you don’t know what is creating the anxiety (and worse, believe that they’re a SOLUTION) to your anxiety, the prospects aren’t looking good because no matter WHAT YOU DO or ‘SAY’ This almost NEVER works for women. It is a nightmare for women and only increases your anxiety.

The #1 Reason for your anxiety with women is located towards the bottom.  I’m Rion Williams A few years back, I CORRECTED my anxiety with women.  I have no fear of women and it’s because of what I’m going to share with you.

Instead of worrying, I feel attracted.  I am so solid in my presence and power that I pass the tests of (all) women..the longer they are around me the more they open up (even ice queens) but often they will do crazy things right when I’m just there.  They will give ME attraction when I’m just ‘there’ when other men WORK for it and can’t get anywhere.

I won’t say explicit things that happen but it starts with ATTRACTION which is what you get when you have 0 anxiety…it’s where everything BEGINS.  When you approach, a woman knows you are real INSTANTLY and that’s when things begin.

If you have anxiety your energy and body is communicating that she is a fantasy and a real relationship, well that doesn’t ever start.  That’s why it’s easier for you to succeed with women you don’t have anxiety around like uglier women.

You can manage your anxiety and REMOVE it, which will leave you with a confident masculinity that attracts women.  So no matter how much work you do, you’ve got the emergency brakes on with anxiety.

So, if you’ve been there (and I used to be), it looks like you’ve got approach anxiety.  We now know the symptoms..which is an outcome of a cause I will mention later.

Approach anxiety – it seems it’s always there when you least want it.  A beautiful woman can walk in the same room and all of a sudden you can’t control yourself.  You can become anxious, self conscious, and lose your sense of center.

If you’re having butterflies right now to these women and feel like you aren’t worthy, stopping EVERYTHING right now and reading this page may be the most important thing you could ever do for the future of your love life, libido and your masculine confidence.

What would it feel like to be the ‘man’ This is just ‘IS’ These women are the equals and matches for powerful men on a sexual level.  It’s hard to believe.  Keep reading.

So when you meet women like that, you’re literally left speechless, right?  While you can be normal around men, anxiety will set in when you are with these women. ‘hot’ These women come in all types.

She has value, she knows it, and you know it too.  Her beauty is real and her body is hot.  She is wanted.  You know it’s true and of course you’d want to be with her.

You can’t lie about that but you also can’t control yourself.  Your body WANTS what she has but you just can’t CONNECT with her in a way that actually gets anywhere for the both of you.  You’re too damn nervous and it’s hard to believe you’re ‘worthy’ when you try and approach or even if you don’t!

You feel butterflies in your stomach. Your breathing becomes shallower, your pulse is faster and your knees are weaker.

You begin to ask yourself how you compare with her. ‘sexiness’ That is what all men desire.  How could you compare?  What can you offer her and how can she turn on you in seconds?  hah..seems impossible.  Are you able to get past the first three seconds without falling on your own?  What do you think?

What makes it worse is that these women don’t do anything to HELP you know they’re interested or that it’s ‘ok’ for you to approach (at least UNTIL you’re authentically confident) so it leaves you up to take all the risk, question yourself and deal with all of this anxiety and the risk of rejection.

When it seems like they MIGHT be interested in you, you double question yourself if she’s REALLY interested in you and find excuses not to approach.

And you’re STILL not getting physical with any of the women you get anxious around but you’re sick and tired of this.  You want it all under control and not left to luck or chance.

It has been a long-standing problem that social anxiety and approach anxiety have caused to build up over the years. You can then take this angst out on other areas of your life, such as music, work, or sports.  Dry spells can last for a very long time.

Uncontrollable anxiety means doing one thing well.

It’s keeping your FANTASY SEX LIFE thriving isn’t?  Yes, that’s right. ‘self pleasing’ thing.

Your visceral fear is keeping REAL WOMEN away from your relationships and your dating life.

And whether you’re approaching or not (and ‘fighting through the fear’These hot women will continue to be ELUSIVELY HOT regardless of their gender. ‘out of touch’.

They may be very close, but far away. You can still go home to fantasize about them, which pushes them further away.

Beautiful women are possible ‘above’ you and like you’re not worthy so it’s often just a pipe dream but you NEVER give up the hope (or fantasy).

Cure You can make your fears and fantasies a reality.  You can wish.  But how?

Is it just to FORCE yourself to approach women, even though you’re still extremely nervous?  Do you want to be more like a PUA?  Besides…

You can’t do anything that doesn’t work.

There is still anxiety.

Inner game is not more approachable ‘fighting through the fear’.  It’s still near impossible to connect with attractive women even when you ARE doing it and taking action.  They’re just in a separate reality from yours and it seems impossible to ever bridge it.

The fear remains VERY real and you just can’t connect with women or control your anxiety.  Even with the perfect pick-up line you find a way to screw it up or they’re just not interested (then why on earth are they dressed so damn sexy?!).

If it’s any consolation so far, I’ve BEEN there through all of this so that’s how I know…the anxiety was very real for YEARS.  After years of figuring out the magic 3 step formula, I’m going to share some real advice.

Maybe you’ve tried some of these ‘solutions’

Attractive women are the best way to relieve your anxiety.

They are supposed to work:

#1: “Just push through your fear and approach anyways”

It seems like it’s the only. ‘real’ answer dating experts or PUA’s can give.  This creates more anxiety than you can bear.  You can expect to meet thousands of women who are experiencing rejection and making a fool of yourself.

If it took mPUA’s ‘years’ Being in the ‘trenches’ (and if they’re saying ‘this is the only way’) how is it going to shortcut you if they’re teaching you the only solution is really to ‘get out there’ yourself and fight through the same fear and anxiety they couldn’t cure when you’re running into walls all the time?!

Even so, it means YOU are going to have to approach 1,000’s of women with that advice to cure your anxiety.  Is that something you have the time to do?  Attraction shouldn’t be a war or a game.  And you at least expect RESULTS when you’re out of your comfort zone but history has proven otherwise.  It’s so difficult!

One client I worked with in Europe had approached 4,000 women, and he got 2 numbers and 1 kiss. I did the exact same thing in Berlin for him within just a few hours.  The CURE is not doing more of what doesn’t work.

‘Feeling the fear and doing it anyways’ It is not a solution to the root problem, but only an ignorance of the problem and superficial solutions that do not solve it.

No matter how beautiful a woman is, there is NO NATURAL fear for her.

There’s GOT to be some greater ‘big secret’ that even other dating experts don’t know or is just hidden from you ENTIRELY right?  Yes.  Yes.

#2: “Work on your ‘Inner Game’”

It’s pretty popular in the dating industry.  It seems like everyone is teaching it.

Maybe you’ve found that Inner Game isn’t a cure and if anything it’s made a psychological LOOP of torment and unworthiness even more unbearable.  If it really was as great as it’s supposed to be, then why do you stil have anxiety around the hot and beautiful women that you really want to meet?  How do you? ‘fix’ You want to be as beautiful, powerful and valuable as her?

Why is it so difficult to get along?  Why is it so hard to connect with her when you could have any man just by the way she looks?  Your inner game not only doesn’t compare to her ‘real sexual’ It is often not of any immediate value and can be difficult to get her into bed.

“Dude, you suck…it’s your fault..fix yourself”

And then, believing it’s YOUR FAULT for being a loser and not obtaining these smoking hot women or being at fault for her behavior or ignorance just doesn’t seem right yet it must be your fault from an Inner Game perspective, so you’re stuck in even more of a fantasy cycle of personal self improvement and rarely connecting with women.  Towards the bottom you’re going to discover the 1 reason why this is damaging your success with women: you have an Inner Game _ _ _ of sexuality and women.

#3: “Use Affirmations”

Repeat this 100 times “I can approach any woman.” Then, you approach a very beautiful one and you go back to square 1. You are still in your unworthy nervous energy.

Affirmations are a good idea but what we’re talking about requires something with more serious power.  Your mind just CAN’T believe the lie when your body and results are showing everything the opposite.

How can beautiful women who can get any man to love you?  Especially when you don’t have experience to back it up and this all creates more anxiety from an inner game perspective also keeping women away from you UNTIL you can find a way to believe it then MAYBE it would work.

#4: “Just be confident”

Yeah right.  That sounds just like what a natural would say. ‘gets it’.  You just don’t have control over your nervous energy, it is BEYOND you around beautiful women.

A natural may be able to show you the signs but can’t give you the map so you’re left trying to figure out clues on your own because most of what dating experts or PUA’s say sounds difficult, unnatural, irrelevant to actual success or just creates more anxiety.  You haven’t found a way yet to just ‘be’ You can feel confident around beautiful women.

#5: “Working Out or Bodybuilding”

This seems like it would make sense…once I have ‘the hot body’ that women supposedly lust over, THEN I’ll be able to ‘get the chicks’…but what happens is that you may be even MORE frustrated having all this additional expectations and you’re still not getting the chicks, so you work out even harder and the cycle continues as you put your angst back into looking even better but secretly you’re still alone UNLESS you can bridge it to cure your anxiety and know how to meet women – THEN it can work to your advantage.

#6: “The 3 Second Rule”

This is what it means to ‘approach her within 3 seconds’ – that way you’re stopping yourself from thinking your way out of it, or building up even more anxiety.  This is actually generally good advice as a rule of thumb but the fact it’s coming from a ‘you can’t control your energy’ and you suck with almost anything you do, doesn’t help PLUS it’s still giving women all of this ‘power’.  The fact that it isn’t a REAL CURE to anxiety, is why I don’t like it.

I defy the 3 second rule often and make things work where PUA’s would be stuck in their additional anxiety.  You will learn with the cure to even cold approach not at all out of fear but because you’re relaxing, have 0 anxiety, control and power – it even allows more of the nonverbal tension to build.

Some PUA’s just think that it’s impossible so you have to ‘fight the fear’ and deal with it like you’re a ticking time bomb that’s going to screw it up anyways so you might as well get it over with – IS NOT an effective cure to anxiety.

#7: “Just Talk To More People To Warm Up”

Just talk to people near you as you go about things more often (including those you’re not trying to pick up or ever be romantic with) is generally a good rule of thumb for being more outgoing, personable or social and it works.  For real relationships to develop and maintain new ones, you need human interaction.  When you’re powerful and lacking anxiety anywhere you go as you’ll learn in the 3 Step Cure, it’s no problem to say anything to anyone.

Talking to others to get to know you better (before you) ‘game’ It can be used to relieve anxiety (for women).  That’s where I disagree…it’s a LONG path.  Because it’s not dealing with the core issue itself it’s going to take a LOT of approaches like this and how about when you approach a ’10’?  Does it really matter?

You should not take MORE aspirin to treat a serious condition.

#8: “Looking Good”

You might consider improving your appearance.  This can make things worse because you KNOW you’re looking good, even feeling good and then NOTHING HAPPENS.  You’re supposed to be so worthy yet you still have anxiety because women are stuck in their own world separate from you.  Additional anxiety is caused by higher expectations and pressure.

#9: “Showing more bling or social status”

Although this is how it is supposed to work, sometimes women end up using you for free bottles and stay with their group of friends.  It creates anxiety and perpetuates a fantasy universe by not being able to connect with women as you intended.  The nicer watch didn’t do it…the luxury car when you got it didn’t do it either.

New anxiety levels and new payments  V.I.P. The V.I.P. table attracted women, but even if it resulted in getting physical with any consistency, do you want to be paying for women indirectly?  How much are you spending on women?  Usually you’re left with an empty pocket and even MORE anxiety because it actually didn’t work to attract and get physical with women.

What about just getting some really nice clothes and high quality fashionable threads that’s really YOU.  O.k. that can help FOR A MINUTE to attract women but you STILL have to get rid of your anxiety if you’re going to get anywhere.  Spending money doesn’t cure your attraction, it can make it worse especially if you feel like you’re entitled and try to look proud in who you are but women remain in their own world.

#10: “Always have something good to say”

This will make it difficult to find the woman you truly want.  If you just don’t have control over your energy and anxiety and can’t create a real connection naturally within a few seconds when you meet her, there is little chance of anything.  Your confidence is the key.

They are THE BEST at approaching women.  They speak with their BODY language and have no anxiety.

Even when you ‘memorize’ Your anxiety is constantly causing problems with a story, sequence, or statement.  Besides then you’re thinking too much and in your head.  It’s your physiological energy that is telling her she is ABOVE you and that you won’t get physical with her in anyplace but your fantasies.

Ok, so a good funny line CAN open the door for a little window of opportunity but she’s not going to give you much more room if you don’t have your nervous energy handled.

You can have SOME anxiety and still get dates more if you’re good-She forgives you. You have other redeeming characteristics and can initiate conversations. This is an advantage, but it feels like you are having dry spells with women.  The superhot ones?  You’d better have your body language together even if you can remember a ‘line’.

#11: “Work on the social dynamics’”

And what?  What if you become an outgoing party boy who doesn’t have anything to do with women?  Or worse, become the PUA version that is always out trying to get women to agree to their sexuality.  WHAT IF there was an entirely different level of communication and values ENTIRELY and was the one that PUA’s don’t have a path to connect on no matter how much work they do?  It will be more obvious at the bottom.

Yet this is what mPUA’s have done.  Rocket ship science was born from the most basic of things: Boy meets girl.  All that is necessary to be successful in this endeavor can be avoided. ‘game’ You can be equal to her power by CURING your anxiety.  Not by trying to cure it from the root, but by being a nerdy approach machine that still has anxiety.

There’s no need to impress, be nervous or win her approval when you just ARE powerful and it gives room for women to draw in to you but everything that’s being done is as if the woman is the prize even when they pretend they’re the prize.  That comes down to their _ _ _ of reality which you’ll discover below.  Step 3 involves meeting women (in Cure) but done in a way where you’re not a game-You should be able to play the fool with your partner and connect with her sexually rather than fearing her socially.

#12: “Settle for less or ‘take 1 for the home team’”

You don’t want to have to settle for less (where at least you know you’re in a ‘comfort zone’It may not be the best thing for you, but it does relieve some anxiety. However, you feel worse because you still have anxiety and secretly you desire a better quality woman or beauty.

Why are you anxious about the women you really want?

And why can’t you deserve and get them into your life (and bedroom if we’re being honest).

Maybe you’ve found that some of the above dating industry ‘solutions’ Or prescriptions can worsen your anxiety!  More band-aids on a deep wound isn’t going to cure.  It’s a cover-up to take more aspirin for serious symptoms.  What about preventing it from happening?

You sure As heck don’t want to become an approach-a-holic PUA type nor become someone you aren’t just to get physical with women.

It’s like the above ‘solutions’ not only don’t cure anxiety but often bring about NEW side issues you didn’t have before.  It’s lasted for years.

Yet, ANXIETY REMAINS.  And that’s the BEST advice you’ll find out there.

It’s because they don’t have a real cure and most of them haven’t fully cured it themselves.  They’re all going about it by avoiding the core issue itself.  They don’t even know what the Cause is, they have no clue.

Oh, and are you a believer in the ‘game’?  Then you’re going to have anxiety.

You have to believe in something else stronger (when you’re meeting women) or you’ll continue having approach anxiety and struggle getting physical with women.

So in a way it’s like you feel completely LOST with women and attraction.  They’re still an ILLUSTRATED FANTASY.