Rion Williams – Overcoming Fear of Aphrodites

 

You can eliminate your inner game, butterflies reactions and nervousness while communicating with women, no matter their social status.

Rion Williams – Overcoming Fear of Aphrodites

Discover the 3 Step Formula for Permanently Living. Cure Your Anxiety Around The Women You Want to Meet & Get Them Attracted Instead And the 12 Anxiety ‘Solutions’ These are the things that I believe will only increase your anxiety.

Are you still nervous about beautiful women??  Does your body temperature rise, heart flutter and you can’t think of What would you say to her if you were to approach her?

 Then it’s safe to say that you have approach anxiety.

It’s a very real issue that is affecting your ability to attract and date beautiful, higher quality women in reality.

Unfortunately, it seems most AA advice out there is coming from people who haven’t cured it themselves or it just plain doesn’t work.  That is the kind of thing. of Advice can work against you for many years, creating anxiety and driving women away from you in real life.

If you don’t know what is creating the anxiety (and worse, believe that they’re a SOLUTION) to your anxiety, the prospects aren’t looking good because no matter WHAT YOU DO or ‘SAY’ This almost NEVER works for women. It is a nightmare for women and only increases your anxiety.

You will find the #1 cause towards the bottom of Your anxiety with women.  I’m Rion Williams I have CURED my anxiety with women a few years back and am now approaching – ALL anxiety.  I have no fear of women and it’s because of what I’m going to share with you.

Instead of I am able to attract attention and overcome anxiety.  I’m so strong in my presence and power, that I pass the tests of (all) women..the longer they are around me the more they open up (even ice queens) but often they will do crazy things right when I’m just there.  They will give ME attraction when I’m just ‘there’ when other men WORK for it and can’t get anywhere.

I won’t say explicit things that happen but it starts with ATTRACTION which is what you get when you have 0 anxiety…it’s where everything BEGINS.  When you approach, a woman knows you are real INSTANTLY and that’s when things begin.

If you have anxiety your energy and body is communicating that she is a fantasy and a real relationship, well that doesn’t ever start.  That’s why it’s easier for you to succeed with women you don’t have anxiety around like uglier women.

Your anxiety can be managed and REMOVED. This will give you a confident, masculine man that attracts women.  So no matter how much work you do, you’ve got the emergency brakes on with anxiety.

So, if you’ve been there (and I used to be), it looks like you’ve got approach anxiety.  We know the symptoms..which is an effect. of A cause I will mention later in this article.

 Approach anxiety – it seems it’s always there when you least want it.  Beautiful women can be in the same space and still look beautiful. of a sudden you can’t control yourself.  You become anxious and self-conscious, and you lose your center.. 

You will be influenced by her beauty, power, sexiness, and value.. 

Are you able to approach women with confidence and not fear?  Are you able to control your energy around the PICTURES? of You can’t even imagine them in real life.

If you’re having butterflies right now to these women and feel like you aren’t worthy, Stop doing everything right now Please read this page It could be the best thing that you do for the future of Your love life, your libido and masculine confidence.

What would it feel like to be the ‘man’ That’s it ‘IS’ The powerful match and equal to these women on a sexual basis?  It’s hard to believe.  Continue reading.

So when you meet women like that, you’re literally left speechless, right?  It’s possible to be normal around guys, but then anxiety sets in when you meet these women. ‘hot’ Type of Women are everywhere.

She has value, she knows it, and you know it too.  Her beauty and body are VERY real.  She is highly desired.  You know it’s true and of course you’d want to be with her.

You can’t lie about that but you also can’t control yourself.  Your body WANTS what she has but you just can’t CONNECT with her in a way that actually gets anywhere for the both of you.  You’re too damn nervous and it’s hard to believe you’re ‘worthy’ when you try and approach or even if you don’t!

When you feel those butterflies in the stomach, you begin to breathe shallower, your pulse raced, and your knees weakened.

You begin to ask yourself how you can compare with her. ‘sexiness’ That is what all men desire.  What could you possibly compare?  What can you offer her and how can she turn on you in seconds?  hah..seems impossible.  Are you able to get past the first three seconds without falling on your own?  What do you think?

What makes it worse is that these women don’t do anything to HELP you know they’re interested or that it’s ‘ok’ for you to approach (at least UNTIL you’re authentically confident) so it leaves you up to Take all risksBe honest with yourself and take the time to learn about all of them. of This anxiety and the risk of rejection.

When it seems like they MIGHT be interested in you, you double question yourself if she’s REALLY interested in you and find excuses not to approach.

And you’re STILL not getting physical with any of the women you get anxious around but you’re sick and tired of this.  It is important to take control of the situation and not let luck or chance get in the way.

Over the years of It is creating all the anxiety in social and approach situations. of This angst you can take out at other outlets of Life (the gym and sports, work, music, etc.)  The dry spells can be long-lasting.

This anxiety is uncontrollable 1 thing Very well.

It’s keeping your FANTASY SEX LIFE thriving isn’t?  That’s right! ‘self pleasing’ thing.

Your visceral fear is keeping REAL WOMEN away from your relationships and your dating life.

And whether you’re approaching or not (and ‘fighting through the fear’These hot women will continue to be ELUSIVELY HOT regardless of their gender. ‘out of touch’.

They may be very close, but they are still WORLDS APART from your. You can go home and dream about them, which pushes them further away.

Gorgeous women do exist! ‘above’ you and like you’re not worthy so it’s often just a pipe dream but you NEVER give up the hope (or fantasy).

Your anxiety can be cured and your fantasy could become a reality.  It’s possible to wish.  But how do you get there?

Is it just to FORCE yourself to approach women, even though you’re still extremely nervous?  Learn more of What is a PUA?  Besides…You can’t do anything that doesn’t work.There is still anxiety.

 Inner game is not more approachable ‘fighting through the fear’.  It’s still near impossible to connect with attractive women even when you ARE doing it and taking action.  They’re just in a separate reality from yours and it seems impossible to ever bridge it.

The fear remains VERY real and you just can’t connect with women or control your anxiety.  Even with the best pick-up line you find a way to screw it up or they’re just not interested (then why on earth are they dressed so damn sexy?!).

If it’s any consolation so far, I’ve BEEN there through all of this so that’s how I know…the anxiety was very real for YEARS.  However, I will share some tips that have worked for years. of Let’s clarify what the miracle 3 step formula actually is.  

Maybe you’ve tried some of These are ‘solutions’ Attractive women are supposed to solve your anxiety about approaching men

Here’s What You’ll Get in Overcoming Fear of Aphrodites

#1: “Just push through your fear and approach anyways”

It seems like it’s the only. ‘real’ answer dating experts or PUA’s can give.  The thought of it is a terrible idea of This is because it causes MORE anxiety.  Expect to Be close to thousands of Women Being rejected and becoming a FOOL of Your mental turmoil can lead to you being unable to forgive yourself.

If it took mPUA’s ‘years’ of Being in the ‘trenches’ (and if they’re saying ‘this is the only way’) how is it going to shortcut you if they’re teaching you the only solution is really to ‘get out there’ yourself and fight through the same fear and anxiety they couldn’t cure when you’re running into walls all the time?!

But it does not mean that you are not going to have to approach 1,000’s of Women With that advice, you can overcome your anxiety.  Are you willing to take the time?  Attraction shouldn’t be a war or a game.  And you at least expect RESULTS when you’re out of You may be comfortable in your own comfort zone, but history has shown otherwise.  It is so difficult.

One client from Europe approached 4,000 women, and got 2 numbers and 1 kiss. I did the same in front. of Within a few hours, he was in Berlin of being out.  The CURE is not doing Continue reading of what doesn’t work.

‘Feeling the fear and doing it anyways’ It is not a solution to the root problem, but only an ignorance of the problem and superficial solutions that do not solve it.

There is NO NATURAL Fear of No matter how beautiful a woman is, she will always be admired by others.

There’s GOT to be some greater ‘big secret’ that even other dating experts don’t know or is just hidden from you ENTIRELY right?  Yes.  But, before we go any further.. of These other solutions might be available?

#2: “Work on your ‘Inner Game’”

 This is a very popular topic in the dating world.  It seems that everyone is teaching it.

Maybe you’ve found that Inner Game isn’t a cure and if anything it’s made a psychological LOOP of Torment and feeling unworthiness are even more painful.  If it really was as great as it’s supposed to be, then why do you stil have anxiety around the hot and beautiful women that you really want to meet?  How can you do that? ‘fix’ Do you want to match her beauty, power and value?

Why is it so difficult to find a partner?  Why is it so hard to connect when she could have any man anywhere? of How does she look?  Your inner game not only doesn’t compare to her ‘real sexual’ It often seems completely irrelevant to getting her into bed.

“Dude, you suck…it’s your fault..fix yourself”

And then, believing it’s YOUR FAULT for being a loser and not obtaining these smoking hot women or being at fault for her behavior or ignorance just doesn’t seem right yet it must be your fault from an Inner Game perspective, so you’re stuck in even more of A fantasy cycle of a lack of connection with women and self-improvement.  Towards the bottom you’re going to discover the 1 reason why this is damaging your success with women: you have an Inner Game _ _ _ of Sexuality and women

#3: “Use Affirmations”

 Repeat the process 100 times “I can approach any woman.” Then, you approach a very beautiful one and you go back to square 1. You are still in your unworthy nervous energy.

Affirmations are a good idea but what we’re talking about requires something with more serious power.  Your mind just CAN’T believe the lie when your body and results are showing everything the opposite. How is it possible for beautiful women who are capable of having any man fall in love with you?  Especially when you don’t have experience to back it up and this all creates more anxiety from an inner game perspective also keeping women away from you UNTIL you can find a way to believe it then MAYBE it would work.

#4: “Just be confident”

 Yeah right.  That sounds just like what a natural would say. ‘gets it’.  You just don’t have control over your nervous energy, it is BEYOND you around beautiful women.

 A natural may be able to show you the signs but can’t give you the map so you’re left trying to figure out clues on your own because most of what dating experts or PUA’s say sounds difficult, unnatural, irrelevant to actual success or just creates more anxiety.  You haven’t found a way yet to just ‘be’ Confident around beautiful women in real life

#5: “Working Out or Bodybuilding”

This seems like it would make sense…once I have ‘the hot body’ that women supposedly lust over, THEN I’ll be able to ‘get the chicks’…but what happens is that you may be even MORE frustrated having all this additional expectations and you’re still not getting the chicks, so you work out even harder and the cycle continues as you put your angst back into looking even better but secretly you’re still alone UNLESS you can bridge it to cure your anxiety and know how to meet women – THEN it can work to your advantage.

#6: “The 3 Second Rule”

This is what it means to ‘approach her within 3 seconds‘ – that way you’Refrain from thinking about the impossible. of it or build up more anxiety.  This is generally a good rule of thumb. of thumb but the fact it’s coming from a ‘you can’t control your energy’ and you suck with almost anything you do, doesn’t help PLUS it’s still giving women all of This ‘power’.  The fact that it isn’t a REAL CURE to anxiety, is why I don’t like it.

I defy the 3 second rule often and make things work where PUA’s would be stuck in their additional anxiety.  The cure for even cold approaches is not difficult to find. of fear but because you’re relaxing, have 0 anxiety, Control It even allows for more power and efficiency of The tension that builds up in the nonverbal.

Some PUA’s just think that it’s impossible so you have to ‘fight the fear’ and deal with it like you’re a ticking time bomb that’s going to screw it up anyways so you might as well get it over with – IS NOT an effective cure to anxiety.

#7: “Just Talk To More People To Warm Up”

 Just talk to people near you as you go about things more often (including those you’re not trying to pick up or ever be romantic with) is generally a good rule of It’s a good idea to be more outgoing, friendly and social.  To have genuine relationships and to create new ones, human interaction is essential in life.  When you’re powerful and lacking anxiety anywhere you go as you’ll learn in the 3 Step Cure, it’s no problem to say anything to anyone.

Talking to others to get to know you better (before you) ‘game’ It can be used to relieve anxiety (for women).  That’s where I disagree…it’s a LONG path.  Because it’s not dealing with the core issue itself it’s going to take a LOT of approaches like this and how about when you approach a ’10’?  Does it really matter if you have root anxiety that is obtrusive?

 It is not a cure, but a cover-up to take more aspirin for serious symptoms.

#8: “Looking Good”

How about improving your appearance?  This can make things worse because you KNOW you’re looking good, even feeling good and then NOTHING HAPPENS.  You’re supposed to be so worthy yet you still have anxiety because women are stuck in their own world separate from you.  This creates anxiety because you have higher expectations and pressure.

#9: “Showing more bling or social status”

This is how it should work. However, sometimes this works and women end up using your free bottle service to stay with their groups. of girlfriends.  It creates anxiety and perpetuates a fantasy universe by not being able to connect with women as you intended.  The nicer watch didn’t do it…the luxury car when you got it didn’t do it either.

New sets of Anxiety and payments  V.I.P. The V.I.P. table attracted women, but even if it resulted in getting physical with any consistency, do you want to be paying for women indirectly?  What amount of money are you actually spending?  Usually you’re left with an empty pocket and even MORE anxiety because it actually didn’t work to attract and get physical with women.

What about just getting some really nice clothes and high quality fashionable threads that’s really YOU.  O.k. This can be a great way to attract women, but you still need to get rid of them of your anxiety if you’re going to get anywhere.  Spending money doesn’t cure your attraction, it can make it worse especially if you feel like you’re entitled and try to look proud in who you are but women remain in their own world.

#10: “Always have something good to say”

This is how it works Straight out the front door Only surround yourself with women who are truly your ideal.  If you just don’t have control over your energy and anxiety and can’t create a real connection naturally within a few seconds when you meet her, there is little chance of anything.  Your confidence is everything.

Women who are the most successful at approaching women don’t use pick-up lines.  Their BODY language is clear and they have NO anxiety.

Even when you ‘memorize’ Your anxiety is constantly causing problems with a story, sequence, or statement.  Besides then you’re thinking too much and in your head.  It’s your physiological energy that is telling her she is ABOVE you and that you won’t get physical with her in anyplace but your fantasies.

Okay, so a funny line can open the door to a little window. of opportunity but she’s not going to give you much more room if you don’t have your nervous energy handled.

You can have SOME anxiety and still get dates more if you’re good-You are forgiven by her, you have other redeeming qualities and can have conversations. It is possible to have an advantage, but it feels like you are having dry spells with women.  The superhot ones?  You’d better have your body language together even if you can remember a ‘line’.

#11: “Work on the social dynamics’”

And what?  What if you become an outgoing party boy who doesn’t have anything to do with women?  Worse, they are the PUA version that must always be on top of their anxiety to meet women.  WHAT IF there were a different level? of communication and values ENTIRELY and was the one that PUA’s don’t have a path to connect on no matter how much work they do?  This will become more obvious at the bottom.

Yet this is what mPUA’s have done.  Rocket ship science experiments out of The most fundamental thing: Boy meets Girl.  It is possible to effectively skip all of that and more ‘game’ You can be equal to her power by CURING your anxiety.  Not by trying to cure it from the root, but by being a nerdy approach machine that still has anxiety.

There’s no need to impress, be nervous or win her approval when you just ARE powerful and it gives room for women to draw in to you but everything that’s being done is as if the woman is the prize even when they pretend they’re the prize.  Their _____. of reality which you’ll discover below.  Step 3 includes meeting women (in the Cure) but done in a way where you’re not a game-Instead of running wild, connect with your woman sexually. of Social fear can be a source of anxiety.

#12: “Settle for less or ‘take 1 for the home team’”

You don’t want to have to settle for less (where at least you know you’re in a ‘comfort zone’) but at least it relieves some kind of Anxiety can make you feel worse because you are still anxious and the anxiety is there. You secretly want to have a better quality of life. of Beauty or woman?

What makes you feel anxious around women you truly want?

And why can’t you deserve and get them into your life (and bedroom if we’re being honest).

Maybe you’ve found that some of The above-mentioned dating industry ‘solutions’ Prescriptions and medication can make anxiety worse.  Put more band-aids on a deep wound isn’t going to cure.  It’s a coverup to take MORE aspirin for serious symptoms.  What about preventing it from happening?

You sure As heck don’t want to become an approach-a-holic PUA type nor become someone you aren’t just to get physical with women.

It’s like the above ‘solutions’ not only don’t cure anxiety but often bring about NEW side issues you didn’t have before.  It’s lasted for years. Yet, ANXIETY REMAINS.  And that’s the BEST advice you’ll find out there. 

It’s because they don’t have a real cure and most of them haven’t fully cured it themselves.  They’re all going about it by avoiding the core issue itself.  They don’t even know what the Cause is, they have no clue.

Oh, and what do you want? Believe In the ‘game’?  Then you’re going to have anxiety. You have to believe in something else stronger (when you’re meeting women) or you’ll continue having approach anxiety and struggle getting physical with women. So in a way it’s like you feel completely LOST with women and attraction.  They are still a FANTASY.  So it’s not to stop meeting women all together but if you’re getting nowhere from the above advice, my advice is to STOP DOING THE ABOVE.  You’re going to find out more of Here are some reasons.

 This will stop you from getting more anxiety.

Okay What is the BEST single piece? of I have advice that you can get RIGHT NOW

This will put you on the RIGHT DIRECT path to success. PERMANENTLY Cure your anxiety and physical symptoms around attractive women

We would need to identify and address the exact CAUSE. of To make real changes, the problem must be addressed.  If you want to cure your anxiety with women, and lead to ATTRACTION, this is the right advice:

Having the right map. “Huh?” What is it that I am trying to say?

Look…if you’re in Chicago, have a map of Detroit, but the Map cover misprints and says Chicago. You BELIEVE with everything of Your conviction that the map is of physical Chicago, it doesn’t matter WHAT YOU DO, nor how strong your belief is, does it?

You’ll be continually lost, even FURTHER away from your ACTUAL destination until you get the right, ACTUAL map.

You’d be doing a LOT of work, driving all over the place thinking you’re there but then it’s just not it.

Even better, you can read the map perfectly! if it’s the wrong map it doesn’t matter.  It is possible to get to the right location by chance or luck once in awhile, but it can become really confusing.

You’ll see a road that might be named the same on the map, looks like it might be the same as on the map in about the right area to take a left on and then you never reach your destination.  It’s a different physical location entirely.

So WHAT HAPPENS if you’re following the map for a few hours believing the map is REAL and represents the truth?

IT CAUSES ANXIETY.  MASSIVE ANXIETY & FRUSTRATION.

I am referring to Kicking the car tires, road rage and cussing anxiety because you’re always ‘so close’ yet so damn FAR.

You’re IN a physical REALITY but the MAP that you believe represents Where you are isn’t connecting you physically with where you want to be even though you’re following it.

Nothing else matters and getting advice from people who are also lost or believe that Detroit = Chicago doesn’t help either.

Without the right map you’re going to be doing a lot of work COMPLETELY LOST even If you’ve got the fastest, ‘tricked out’ Good-Looking car, excellent driving record and finesse in getting out of Speeding tickets.  You’re still LOST.  It’s hard to ever arrive.

So when it comes to success with women, it’s taken me 34 years to pinpoint it, but it’s the same exact thing.  EFFECTIVELY.

“But who would be ridiculous enough to believe in the wrong map?”

Yet that is EXACTLY what’s happened and why you’re going to LOVE how to cure your approach anxiety!

Look..

You can be in the SAME PHYSICAL PLACE as a woman but if you’ve got a DIFFERENT MAP OF ATTRACTION or sex, you’re never going to connect with her no matter what you say or do.  This is what causes anxiety.

 It’s not YOU that’s the cause of your anxiety (sure you can make it worse) but it’s not you per se.  It’s in having a different MAP of sexuality.

You’re holding a map that you believe in that isn’t getting you physically where you want to be so you become incredibly frustrated.

What if your whole adult life your MAP and the MAP you believed in that was about attraction & SEX was simply MISLABELED?